Tuesday, September 1, 2009

TWO YEARS

Today at his 2 year well check
The day Kate was born
Mother's Day 2009
4 months old
3 weeks old



Two years ago today, my life was forever changed by the sound of YOU crying as they placed your slippery body on my chest. You looked directly into my tear filled eyes as I held you in disbelief. Your Daddy and I kept saying, “He’s ours! Can you believe it! He’s finally here!”

The two years before you were born, our hearts were heavy and longed for a baby. After two miscarriages, I started to accept and embrace that God’s plan for us to become parents might look different than I had expected. I had no idea how it would all play out.

THE BROKEN ROAD

Two weeks after our second miscarriage Eric was diagnosed with testicular cancer. I can remember the numb feeling that came over my entire body when the doctor told us that surgery was necessary. Our entire mindset changed in an instant as we realized that our focus needed to be on getting Eric well. One night while we were lying in bed just a few days before the surgery, I told Eric that maybe God was allowing this because we weren’t supposed to have biological children. Eric said that it might God’s plan or maybe God was allowing this trial so that when we did have our own children HE would get all of the glory. Eric reminded me of Gideon’s army in the Bible and how God may be reducing our army as well. After surgery our chances of conceiving were literally cut in half.

You can imagine the shock when TWO pink lines appeared on the pregnancy test only 3 weeks after Eric had the cancerous testicle removed. We both laughed out loud as I dreamed about the possibility of a baby in 9 months. With my history of miscarriages I was obviously NERVOUS and was monitored closely throughout the first and second trimester.

THE MOST WONDERFUL SOUND IN THE WORLD

It was rather humorous those first few months of pregnancy. Eric was feeling the effects of the radiation killing any cancer cells that may have been left behind and I was feeling the effects of my body nourishing your tiny life. We both spent the evenings on the couch exhausted and nauseous. One thing was for sure, we were thankful. We had our first ultrasound scheduled when I was six weeks pregnant with you. We waited as the doctor started to examine me with the ultrasound machine. It was so quiet I thought I could hear my own heart beating until the doctor said, ‘That’s the sound of your baby’s heart beating.” He pointed to your tiny heart as it pumped blood through your body. Your daddy and I both started to cry as we heard a sound we had never heard before…the sound of OUR baby’s heart. You’re heart.

FOREVER CHANGED

Two and a half years later our house is filled with the sound of your sweet voice singing the Firetruck song or laughing as we all wrestle on the floor. I love that Daddy is your best friend and you love emulating everything he does. I love the way you still cuddle me in the mornings as we watch Sesame Street and sing the Elmo song together. Your name means rest and comfort NOAH PAUL You have brought us much comfort and although I am more tired than I have ever been in my life, my heart finally rests. Thank you for changing our lives! We love you more than words can express Noah. God will use your story to bring Glory to Himself. It is my prayer that you will seek HIM and follow HIM all the days of your life.





6 comments:

Jenny Schlenker said...

I am tucked in bed, ready to go to sleep its midnight and now there are tears streaming down my face as i am reminded of how we prayed for Noah and how God is so glorified though you and Eric. I admire you Drea, for your love for Jesus and your strength to keep you eyes on him no matter what. You faith encourages me. I love you dearly.

Rob, Kelly, Bennett, and Elodie said...

Wow. You've got me crying too. What a road. What a beautiful testimony Noah's life is. Amazing.

I am so blessed to know you.

The McCarty's said...

That was beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Your family is amazing. I can't believe it has already been 16 months since I became a mom of two. You're right it goes so fast but in the same way, not a day goes by that I don't feel so thankful. Children are such a gift and a joy! Praise God for yours. Kaitlyn

Tim and Debra said...

Makes me cry just reading. What beautiful children you have!

nicole viola said...

you have such an amazing story of God's work in your family. I'm so thankful to have been along for the journey, praying with and for you. xoxo!

Erica.Michelle. said...

Drea, I'm in tears. Praise God for his faithfulness to you and Eric. I always knew you'd be amazing parents. Love and miss you guys so much.